叫老

L,


那天我读到一篇小说的主角说１８岁的自己已经老了，我禁不住大笑。
１８岁叫老，那么７０几岁的人叫什么呢？
在年轻的时候叫老，总是心境在作怪。而那份心境却是真的。
事实上昨天的我们永远比现在我们年轻，而明天的我们也永远比今天老一天。
那么我们是不是应该一直认老？还是平常心的看待年龄这回事。
20几岁叫老，说太迟了，是给自己的一个束缚。
如果解开束缚，觉得今天的自己还是比明天年轻，尽力在当下做自己可以和想做的事，那何不是给自己一个不会退缩，没有后悔，尽情发光的机会？
反正谁知道明天会是怎样。

                                                                                                                        jyc

Brian McKnight

Dear all,

            A great singer, do not need fancy costumes, backup dancers or flowery special effects to showcase God's gift, which is his voice in a live audience.
            All he did was just sang beautifully, effortlessly.....and also playing the guitars, the piano, being humorous, a bit of dancing, and maybe a bit of flirting, plenty of handshaking and interaction with his fans.
            Brian McKnight's voice is so smooth even when his voice is transiting quickly within a huge vocal range, as what R&B song does. 
            It was a great live music experience with a perfect talented voice. I am such a fan now, and I am so glad that I decided last minute to attend. The ticket was a bargain, it definitely worth way more than that!!
     

                                                                                                                                       jyc
         

Sorry.

Dear YJ,
           
           I was such a horrible person.
           The funny thing is that I can't remember now. But those harsh words had clearly embedded in your heart and mind for all these years, and become your impression of me.
           No wonder you hate me.
           I guess the worst person to have grudge with, is a person like me, who forgets, while you remember everything. While the person lives on without even remembering the pain they caused you. And probably you will think to yourself, is there any worth of continuing letting yourself hurt by their unthoughtful words in the past?
           So the lesson of the story is that to think for 10 seconds when one is angry before one write or say anything negative or hurtful, so they don't come and haunt you in the future. You are what you say and write, and once it is out, you can't take it back.
           I am very sorry on behalf of the past horrible immature me, and I hope it will set you free.

                                                                                                                   jyc